Reminder: Mollena Williams - Self-ish Submission @ Mon Mar 26 7pm - 9pm (NELA Calendar)

more details » Mollena Williams - Self-ish Submission Cost: $10 pre-pay, $15 at the door Dress code: church friendly Description: Self-ish Submission: Why your Needs Should be Nourished. As submissives and slaves, we often approach our relationships from the viewpoint that the ultimate goal is to meet the needs of our partners, and in that way, have our own needs met. While this seems a lofty goal, fully abandoning one's own needs and wants may not bring the blissful surrender you seek. Sometimes? We need more. Feedback, affection, focus, attention. In power exchange relationships (Hey, they're called "exchange" for a reason!) there needs to be an ebb and flow, a give and take that fulfils all parties involved. Knowing what you need, what it takes to achieve your needs, and expressing them clearly can help you be present and fulfilled in your relationships. We will discuss ways to handle questions such as determining: How do I know what I want? What would happen if I have my needs met? What would happen if I do not have my needs met? When does serving another become compromising myself? How do I know when I've gone too far? This discussion will revolve around assessing, categorizing prioritizing and supporting your needs and your wants, and discovering what you are...or are not...willing to do to have these met. Subs and Slaves only, please. Switches will need to speak from their s-sides. Pre-sale tickets available HERE About Mollena: This "Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission" © is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator and Executive Pervert. She is extremely honored, humbled and proud to have served as International Ms Leather 2010. She is also thrilled to have been named Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009 after that contest's decade long slumber. She is deeply honored to have been nominated for the 21st Annual Pantheon of Leather's Woman of the Year & Northern California Regional Awards. Exploring kink since 1993 and active in BDSM and the Leather Community since 1996, she speaks at Leather, BDSM and Kink events across the US, Europe and Canada on many Leather and BDSM focused topics. She also brings the knowledge on Kink, BDSM and Leather to such august institutions of higher learning as SF and Cal State, Harvard, Yale, Stamford, and Brown for IvyQ. Mollena's been sober since 3-14-2007 and in December that same year, she founded "Safeword," a 12-step based recovery group for all kinksters seeking recovery from addiction. International Ms Leather 2010 was truly an international title year with visits to the Pride Festival in Stockholm, Sweden, where she made history as the first Leatherwoman ever invited to march with the venerable Scandinavian Leathermen's Association! She's also done her thing in Dublin, Ireland, Berlin, Germany, the UK: toured Amsterdam, Netherlands for Leather Pride, as well as teaching and performing in Vancouver, Canada. When Mon Mar 26 7pm – 9pm Eastern Time Where Unity Church - 6 William St, Somerville MA (map) Calendar NELA Calendar Who • nelacalendar@gmail.com - organizer • bendyogagirl@gmail.com - creator

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